Hand Drawn, 75 pages, 12 Chapters
I've made all the mistakes, so you don't have to
I've made all the mistakes, so you don't have to
I've made all the mistakes, so you don't have to
This is not your typical dating advice. My Lesbian Dating Survival Guide teaches you the psychology behind U-Hauling, the Oxytocin Express, lesbian math, and why we fall so fast—so you can stop repeating the same relationship cycle and start dating with clarity and confidence.
Table of Contents
I've made all the mistakes, so you don't have to
I've made all the mistakes, so you don't have to
Table of Contents
I. Wired for Connection – The Sapphic Brain Explained
II. Emotion Ocean
III. How Orgasm and Oxytocin Betray You
IV. Hearts on Fire
V. Lesbian Limerence
VI. U-Haul University
VII. Gaydar Guidance
VIII. Lesbi Honest Tips
IX. Flannel Fitting 101
X. Rainbow Romance Rundown
XI. Attached at the Hip: Navigating Lesbian Love and Attachment Styles
XII. Lover Girl or Toxic
Why Do Lesbians Bond So Quickly?
I’ve been a therapist for over 20 years, and I kept noticing the same patterns show up again and again in lesbian dating—intense connections, fast emotional bonding, and relationships that can feel all-consuming early on. This guide breaks down the psychology behind those experiences, from attachment styles to the role of oxytocin and limerence. It helps you understand why things can move so quickly and why it can be hard to step back, even when something doesn’t feel right. I also share honest, practical insights to help you recognize unhealthy patterns and make more intentional dating choices. The goal is to help you build relationships that feel grounded, secure, and truly fulfilling instead of overwhelming or confusing.
Do you need your own detailed plan for dating?
The Lesbian Dating Game Plan is a practical 50-page digital workbook designed to help you date with more intention, clarity, and self-respect. It guides you through your past relationship patterns so you can recognize what you want to repeat—and what you definitely don’t. You’ll identify your values, boundaries, red flags, green flags, dealbreakers, and personal dating rules. The workbook also helps you think intentionally about pacing, sex, exclusivity, communication, and attachment triggers. With 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins, it encourages you to slow down long enough to see whether chemistry is actually turning into compatibility. Most importantly, it helps you stay connected to yourself while you’re getting connected to someone else.